Valentine's Day is coming. A few dates expected, by many people, to declare public love for the person they love.
From Emocosmetics, we invite you to love. Love without ties, without fear, without brakes. Love without borders and without time.
For Love, we are capable of doing the greatest crazy things that can exist. Music, painting, poetry, theater, dance, every artistic explosion is moved, to a great extent, by Love.
However, many times, more than desired, we forget to LOVE the most important person in our life: Ourselves. We wrongly believe that it is more honorable to love another person above ourselves. And what we do not realize is that, in that abandonment, we are diluted, extinguished, overshadowed.
When looking for love, one can give what is; not even what you want to be. One is faced, with his backpack loaded with desires, strengths, and also defects and weaknesses. And it is that we cannot give what we are not.
Many people spend the pages of their calendar looking for the Perfect Love, and put the objective there, in front, ... in the person who will appear on the horizon. Without realizing that there is no perfect partner, because there are no perfect people.
From Emocosmética, we invite you to a reflection: before talking about two, we must first talk about one. The American Psychologist Leslie Becker Phelps, author of the book: «Love, psychology of attraction»Insists over and over again on the importance of knowing oneself in order to prosper with another:
«We must be able to open ourselves to be truly" seen "by the other. The more we know ourselves, the easier we will get others to know us. And this is difficult if you don't really know what your own thoughts, feelings, beliefs, etc. are. People are more likely to open up when they feel good about themselves.
We are social beings, genetically willing to live as a couple; Therefore, working personally is the only solution, to create a truly worthwhile relationship.
Let's banish old clichés that generate badly built relationships. No one else can make us feel "whole" or "whole" other than ourselves. And as long as the parcels of life are not kept in a perfect balance, we will be looking outside what only we can give ourselves.
A couple cannot fill our void. It helps us to not stop being ourselves, it understands us, supports us and pushes us to improve every day, on that path until we feel like “everything”.
Becker–Phelps illustrates: "There is no ideal person because we are weak, we make mistakes ... And there are no ideal partners either. Perhaps the closest thing to an ideal is to accept our imperfect nature, and that of those around us. These people will have an urge to pursue growth and development in themselves and around them. Similarly, "ideal couples" are those in which each person is as described above and is fully committed to working through the difficulties in their relationship.".
Emocosmetics it places you on the path of your personal growth and development, because we know that in this way you will discover true and eternal love, which is worth it: the love of oneself.
That is the beginning of everything. From there, everything is possible
